Tag: Words

Words go round in circles in my brain. At school I was the spelling bee champion. I loved acing a spelling test, but most of all, I loved understanding words, the meaning of words and the power of words.

My teachers told me my comprehension writing was excellent and told me I should be a writer. They said I was a good storyteller. Well, ignored that and went off and did many other things.

Now, so many years later, I want to share stories with people I don’t know and have never met. Why? I guess to gain some satisfaction that harks back to my primary school years, but mostly because for a while now, something inside of me will not leave me alone until I write it down. There’s no logic to it.

It’s logic schmogic. I looked it up, it’s Yiddish! Historically spoken by Jews. Yiddishism, which for me, translates to Yiddish slang. I Yiddish a lot through life.

What’s not to like about making fun of words. It’s supposed to be funny! It lightens the mood. ‘You have to be concerned about weather when you travel,’ changes to ‘Weather, schmeather, I go wherever I want.’ ‘I’m so tired, I could snooze.’ ‘Snooze schmooze, I’m gonna have a nap.’

It comes from when I was working at a local Casino in Reservations. A group of Hungarian Jews would come and stay three times a year. The ladies were glamorous, and the men were suave. I would catch up with all of them for dinner and the way they spoke was, well, catchy to say the least!

Throughout the years, logic schmogic is a phrase and memory that sticks in my mind, from those times. Conversations with them all trying to talk over the top of each other, peppered with mazel tov, they always told me I was mensch and had chutzpah.

So, mensch schmensch, mazel schmazel, chutzpah schmutzpah and logic schmogic, they always made me laugh and always dazzled me with their words.

The Rubik’s Cube, the logical, illogical puzzle. For some, my son Jackson included, it’s done easily, for others including myself, not easy. It’s intriguing, but there is definitely a logic when it comes to solving this puzzle critter. Use logic they say to solve it, I say ilogiccal schmogical.

My first goal in blogging is to become modern and drop the two spaces between sentences to one only. It’s rubbish schmubbish, but I’m going to give it a go.

‘If you hurt my daughter again, I’ll get a shotgun, stick it up your backside, and blow you from here to kingdom come.’

Yep, it’s fair to say that Dad did not mince words. His command of the English language was something else and that Czech accent, rrreally let the words come out. So well-rounded that even spitting venom, he sounded clear, concise and compelling.

So convincing, he scared the absolute shit out of my boyfriend, who had come crawling back for a second chance, after dumping me for a showgirl dancer. He complained bitterly about Dad’s words and of course, being full of teenage bravado, I complained bitterly to Mum. I cried – why – because I knew Dad meant it.

I was embarrassed, mortified, angry and so pissed off that he had dared to say what he said. It wasn’t until many years later, when I thought about Dad’s words, I felt different words – pride, love, admiration, protection – those words highlighted to me the unwavering support from Dad.

I realised when the chips were down, he would always have my back, no questions asked. That day, I saw, heard, and felt the depth of his love for me and his need to make sure I was never hurt again, by this dickhead (his words, not mine).

Maybe I was the dickhead? After granting said second chance, I contracted a bad case of crabs, but what did I do, I stayed, got engaged, moved interstate, fought so hard to keep the relationship going, only for it to end. Shoulda, woulda, coulda, would have been helpful back then, but my teenage self was in love and had to learn the hard way – not once, but twice.

Dad used lots of colourful words in his vocabulary. Colourful and interesting and engaging. He was always easy to understand.

He used lots of synonyms. I think that’s why he was so good at crosswords. He was an adjectives person – desperate, yearning, advantageous, delirious, enthusiastic, solicitous – his words always conveyed great depth.

When Czech friends visited, the conversation was always peppered with a combination of English and Czech.

He described my Mum’s words at times as venomous. People he didn’t like were snakes. He swore like nobody’s business, but always in Czech and most of the time swearing on the cross.

He could make you laugh with his words, a born storyteller. I could sit and listen to him speak for hours.

I miss his words, the sound of his voice and our banter the most.

Dobrý den Táta – Hello Dad.

Na zdraví – Cheers and God bless you.

My dad spoke perfect English with his Czech accent. What was different about his accent? For me, he spoke quietly, but at times forcefully, a pleasant lilt, with well-rounded words and I love how the Czechs pronounce their r’s, with a real roll of the tongue. Dad was always clear when he spoke. Simply, I loved his words.

Now to the part of my story that explains my passion on why write words.

Back to 1977. I was 11 years old. Dad was a devoted reader. He would read, yes literally read atlases. He would take a volume of the World Book Encyclopedia and, well, read it. He paid a lot of money for this brand-new set of encyclopedias that he purchased from a door-to-door salesperson. I remember him paying off this set of books for a long time, with new volumes being delivered every month, as payments were made.

I used these books to scroll through, read, learn, look at images and help me through my school projects. I think it’s safe to say that dad and I knew words well.

I was an avid reader, still am. Back then, my favourites were Beatrix Potter, Anne of Green Gables, Little Women, Enid Blyton, Lewis Carroll, Roald Dahl, Dr Seuss, and my all-time favourite Trixie Belden – girl detective mysteries.

Last year, I managed to get my hands on a full set of Trixie Belden books 1 – 39, it wasn’t cheap, they’re classed as vintage (definitely showing my age here). They’re a bit worn, a bit tatty and have that musty old room smell, which comes from time-worn books that have lived too much of their life on the shelf.

Dad sat every day, without fail and completed the daily newspaper crossword. It wasn’t easy, but his love of words and completing the crossword gave him a real sense of achievement. How did I know this? I  would sit beside him and help. My ‘help’, I could sense was a bit annoying for him, it was after all, HIS crossword puzzle.

I was having none of that, I had inherited his love of words, and nothing, not even my dad’s annoyance was going to stop me. In the early days, it was hard, he was too quick for me. When I think back, this time was really about bonding with dad.

As the years went on, I managed to work out more solutions to clues. Gosh, I thought, I was smart, but I suspect dad already knew the answer and let me have it.

In later years, he would start the crossword and hand it to me to finish, as he didn’t know the last few answers. He was always delighted when I came up with the right word, which had stumped him for hours.

He was sharp as a tack until the end. Even though he growled and threw his pen down in disgust at times, he probably would have ‘got it’ in the end, without my ‘help’.

When he passed away and I packed up his room with my little sister, Ang, the bottom of his cupboard and desk was full of atlases and interesting books, such as Isaac Asimov, Readers Digest Condensed Books and the Bible.

My inspiration – my dad, my passion – reading and crosswords with my dad.

I asked myself this before I wrote my first blog. The answer was simple—my dad. I’m inspired by dad. Will my blogs be unique? Well, yes, because they come from my dad and my passion for words.

History you ask? Okay. My dad was born in the Czech Republic and escaped during the Communist Rule in 1949, when he was 19 years old. With his good friend Louie, they came up with a daring and brave plan to escape the communist rule and get out of Czechoslovakia.

Between his house and the Austrian border was 3km of forest leading into the border which was an actual river.  In the middle of the night, under the cover of darkness, they crossed the river on an inflatable lifeboat. 

They did not dare tell their families, otherwise they risked them being badly hurt or they feared, killed.  A rogue Czech guide assisted them in getting into Austria with no documents or identification.

In Austria, Dad and Louie slept in a village overnight and in the morning they caught a train to Vienna where they stayed three days.

Vienna was divided into 4 parts – the English zone, the American zone, the Russian zone and the French zone.  They had to cross from the Russian zone into the safety of the American zone, which involved getting over a bridge, but the danger was that someone might ask for identification papers and they had none.

They got ready to cross the bridge.  The Czech guide told them to keep on walking and if asked for identification, just tell the Russian Communist guards, that they were sorry and in a rush.  He wished them the best of luck and left them to it.

Dad said as they started to cross the bridge, he felt nervous and his body was shaking so much that he couldn’t say a word and he had sweat pouring down his forehead.  They finally crossed the bridge into the American zone and amazingly, nobody asked any questions, the guards were too busy having a cigarette. 

Another guide took Dad and Louie by train to the city Linz which was part of the American zone.  When they arrived in Linz they decided to live in the American camp for a few weeks, where they were processed as refugees. 

Next stop a youth resettlement centre, then onto Italy, where the United Nations Refugee Organisation organised passage on a ship to Melbourne, Australia.

My dad – my inspiration.

Fast forward to 1977 and the next part of my story explains my passion on why write words.

So 3-2-1, take-off, my first blog has been launched.